What does the phrase “being selfish” mean to you? What emotions does that bring up in you when somebody infers that something you’re doing or saying is very “selfish”? What judgment do you place on others when they are doing / saying something that you feel is “selfish”?
One of the biggest areas of our life where we ignore our intuition is in our own personal self-care. We are always getting the ‘intuitive nudge’ to make our self-care a priority, and it seems to be the one place above all else that we turn a deaf ear to those nudges!